{"id":7132,"date":"2012-09-18T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2012-09-18T04:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.theleangreenbean.com\/?p=7132"},"modified":"2015-01-19T22:41:26","modified_gmt":"2015-01-20T03:41:26","slug":"a-day-in-the-life-and-nobodys-perfect","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.theleangreenbean.com\/a-day-in-the-life-and-nobodys-perfect\/","title":{"rendered":"A Day In The Life {and Nobody&#8217;s Perfect}"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hi Friends!<\/p>\n<p>Time for another heartfelt post. It&#8217;s been a while, yes?\u00a0 Here we go.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.theleangreenbean.com\/a-day-in-the-life-and-nobodys-perfect\/dayinthelife\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-7252\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-7252\" title=\"A Day in the Life &amp; Nobody&#039;s Perfect via @Leangrnbeanblog\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/www.theleangreenbean.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/dayinthelife.jpg\" width=\"412\" height=\"652\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.theleangreenbean.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/dayinthelife.jpg 412w, https:\/\/www.theleangreenbean.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/dayinthelife-126x200.jpg 126w, https:\/\/www.theleangreenbean.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/dayinthelife-348x550.jpg 348w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 412px) 100vw, 412px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>As a general rule, bloggers are busy people. Whether blogging is your hobby, a part-time job, or even if it&#8217;s a full-time job, it&#8217;s rarely the only thing you have going on in your life. More than likely, you&#8217;re being pulled in a million different directions, trying to do a million different things&#8230;just like me. Over the past few weeks, several people have said some version of the same thing to me. It&#8217;s been phrased in different ways, from different people- strangers, bloggers I respect, friends- but essentially what it boils down to is them telling me that <strong>&#8220;I&#8217;ve got everything figured out and I balance everything really well.&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>While in a way that IS true- I have a great husband,\u00a0I&#8217;m super close to finishing something I&#8217;ve been working towards for 3+ years, I have a blog that I love, etc&#8230;in another way it couldn&#8217;t be farther from the truth.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m writing this post to show you guys that even thought I may do a good job of making it seem like i have everything figured out all the time-\u00a0<strong>I don&#8217;t<\/strong>. But\u00a0 that&#8217;s ok. <strong>I do a lot.<\/strong> I&#8217;m a wife, an intern, a blogger, a daughter, a friend, a freelance writer, an athlete. <strong>I&#8217;m busy.<\/strong> And sometimes I take on more than I probably should. <strong>But my heart is in the right place. I&#8217;m doing everything I do because I love it. And i&#8217;m doing the best I can. And that&#8217;s all that matters.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Because nobody&#8217;s perfect.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Today\u00a0I thought I&#8217;d give you guys a peek into a day in my life right now. Obviously every day is a little bit different but this should give you little glimpse into life lately:<\/p>\n<p>(Mom, please don&#8217;t read this part&#8230;I promise\u00a0I catch up on my sleep on the weekends!)<\/p>\n<p>6:00am- wake up<\/p>\n<p>6:00-7:00- feed the animals, eat breakfast, drink coffee, get dressed, read blogs, promote my blog post for the day, spread the love for some other people&#8217;s blog posts<\/p>\n<p>7:00- out the door<\/p>\n<p>7:00-7:30- drive to my internship. If i leave by 7,\u00a0I can get there by 7:30. If i leave at 7:15, I won&#8217;t get there until closer to 8. I&#8217;m lucky that for this rotation, my preceptor is very flexible and\u00a0I can pretty much come in whenever I want as long as I&#8217;m there by 9 and then work 8 hours. However, I&#8217;ve been choosing to work 7:30-3:30 to minimize the time\u00a0I have to sit in rush hour traffic.<\/p>\n<p>7:30-3:30- work<\/p>\n<p>3:30-4:00- drive home. Sometimes I don&#8217;t leave work until 4 and then i get home around 4:40ish.<\/p>\n<p>4:00-5:00- feed the dogs, unpack my lunch box, throw the ball for tucker, check my email, respond to emails<\/p>\n<p>5:00-6:00- hubby comes home. I collapse on the bed and stare into space, occasionally take a\u00a0 nap, chat with hubby, try to decompress from the day<\/p>\n<p>6:00-8:00- answer foodie penpals emails, deal with foodie penpals problems, answer more emails, think about dinner<\/p>\n<p>8:00-9:00- make dinner, eat dinner, take pictures of dinner<\/p>\n<p>9:00-10:30- pack my lunch, respond to comments, work on internship assignments like case studies, modules, medical terminology, presentations, etc&#8230;, put the \u00a0finishing touches on tomorrow&#8217;s blog\u00a0post<\/p>\n<p>10:30-11:30- workout (lately running, or walking the dogs about 3 miles to get my steps in)<\/p>\n<p>11:30-12:00- stretch, guzzle water, eat again<\/p>\n<p>12:00-12:30am- shower, collapse into bed<\/p>\n<p>6:00 am- get up and do it all over again<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;<\/p>\n<p>So there you have it. Like I said, every day is a little bit different. Some days I do get to bed before midnight. Most days I don&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p>As you can from the schedule above, I definitely don&#8217;t have things totally figured out.<\/p>\n<p>Am I sleeping enough? No.<br \/>\nAm I eating enough? Usually, but not always&#8230;when I&#8217;m stressed, or I\u00a0really don&#8217;t get enough sleep, I tend to spend some\u00a0of the day feeling sick to my stomach.<br \/>\nAm I spending enough time with my hubby? Not always.<br \/>\nDo I call my family as often as I should? No.<br \/>\nHave I gotten so wrapped up in my own life that I&#8217;ve forgotten to celebrate important milestones with my friends, like birthdays and anniversaries? Yes.<br \/>\nAm I lifting weights as often as I should? No.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>But I&#8217;m trying. And nobody&#8217;s perfect.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>I knew going into this internship that it would be a <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>HUGE<\/strong> <\/span>learning experience. And it has been. Trying to readjust to working full-time AND keep up a blog has been a challenge. <em>Trying to fit in everything that I need to do during the hours before and after work has been hard.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>But each week I&#8217;m getting better.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>So what am I doing right?<\/p>\n<p>1) I&#8217;ve gotten really good at going to bed early on the weekends. In fact, usually on Fridays I come home from work and face plant into bed for 2-3 hours, get up, eat dinner and then go back to bed by 9:30 or 10. Exciting life, eh? And then I repeat that early bedtime on Saturday night. Is that ideal? No. Do I know that I should be getting more than 5-6 hours of sleep during the week? Yes. Luckily I&#8217;ve never been one to require tons of sleep. I can function pretty darn well on\u00a0about 6 hours. <strong>But that doesn&#8217;t mean I shouldn&#8217;t be trying to get 8 hours.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>2) I pretty much rock at being an intern. I love what I&#8217;m doing and that makes it easy to work hard while I&#8217;m there and do a good job.<\/p>\n<p>3) I&#8217;ve also been doing a pretty good job at working out. Even though I&#8217;m tired. And most nights I don&#8217;t have time to get to it until 10 or 11pm, I&#8217;m still doing it. And i&#8217;ve had some pretty darn good late night runs! Have I been lifting weights as much as I should? No. But when I&#8217;m trying to get 10,000 steps in each day, and I sit at a desk for 8 hours so that when I come home I only have 2,000-3,000 of those steps done&#8230;<strong>something&#8217;s gotta give<\/strong>. I&#8217;ll choose running 3 miles over standing still and lifting weights. <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">BUT<\/span>, I know weight lifting is important. So i&#8217;m making an effort to lift at least one day on the weekend, when I have more time to get my steps in doing other things. And now that I&#8217;m getting more and more used to my schedule, I plan to try to fit in one more day of lifting during the week. 2 days\/week is better than nothing.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Nobody&#8217;s perfect.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I also know that when I switch to a next rotation, that doesn&#8217;t involve sitting at a desk quite as much, I may come home with many more steps&#8230;and then i&#8217;ll adjust my routine again. <strong>Life is constantly changing.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>As for spending more time just being? \u00a0Just doing nothing besides sitting and relaxing with my hubby? <strong>I&#8217;m working on it<\/strong>. Do I know it&#8217;s important? <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Yes<\/span>. Do I have approximately one million other things that I feel like\u00a0I could be doing at any given time? Yes. <strong>I&#8217;ve always struggled with that.<\/strong> But that&#8217;s just it. I COULD be doing them. I don&#8217;t always NEED to be. The world won&#8217;t end if I don&#8217;t get a blog post up the next day, or don&#8217;t respond to an email until tomorrow. I&#8217;m trying to remember that. <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">And take a step back<\/span>.<\/p>\n<p>But nobody&#8217;s perfect.<\/p>\n<p>I\u00a0no longer have the time to\u00a0physically\u00a0write a \u00a0blog post\u00a0every day. I&#8217;ve pretty much had to learn how to get\u00a0ALL my blog posts for the week done ,or at least mostly done, on the weekends. <strong>It&#8217;s been an adjustment. But I&#8217;m getting better<\/strong>. I downloaded an editorial calendar widget (who knows why I didn&#8217;t do this earlier?!) It&#8217;s AMAZING! I can see the entire month, schedule posts out a couple of weeks and see where I need to fill in the blanks.<\/p>\n<p>So, since I like to keep it real here on the blog, I wanted to share all of that to you guys&#8230;because I&#8217;m sure a lot of you can relate. And this post is a reminder to myself, as well as to\u00a0all of you.\u00a0Everyone has busy schedules. <strong>Just remember that it&#8217;s ok to not have everything figured out<\/strong>. And those people you&#8217;re comparing yourself to&#8230;the ones you think are totally perfect, when you sometimes feel like a hot mess who has no control over her life? <strong>Those people are struggling to get everything figured out too.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Just because they make it look easy, doesn&#8217;t mean it isn&#8217;t hard<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>But just because it&#8217;s hard, doesn&#8217;t mean it&#8217;s not worth it<\/strong>. In fact, usually the\u00a0hardest thigns\u00a0are the the things worth working for. Because they&#8217;re worth it.<\/p>\n<p>So stop comparing your life to other peoples. Your life is YOURS. You&#8217;re doing what YOU do. Not what other people are doing. Find a schedule that works for YOU. Figure out what <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>you<\/strong> <\/span>care about most and work <strong>those things<\/strong> into your schedule. Don&#8217;t feel like you have to run 10 miles before work just because there&#8217;s 45 other people out there doing it&#8230;if you really don&#8217;t like running. That&#8217;s not benefitting anyone.<\/p>\n<p><strong>And do the best you can&#8230;because that&#8217;s all anyone can ask of you&#8230;<em>and that&#8217;s all you should ask of yourself.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>I&#8217;m a work in progress. Imperfectly perfect. And that&#8217;s ok.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&#8211;Lindsay&#8211;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hi Friends! Time for another heartfelt post. It&#8217;s been a while, yes?\u00a0 Here we go. As a general rule, bloggers are busy people. Whether blogging is your hobby, a part-time job, or even if it&#8217;s a full-time job, it&#8217;s rarely the only thing you have going on in your life. 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